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this survey is juz soo true… =)
I have already braced enough courage to walk out of the glass pieces that has been scattered in my life. I have bleed, I cut myself. I walked out of it. I mend my wounds without you around. I learnt to love myself again. u came back, you said that you wanted me back in your arms. We would work hard and change for the better.
Yet, I am the one being push back into those sharp and painful glass pieces.
I did not cry this time, I did not whine to seek your attention, all I wanted is a good talk, and good communication, transparency I would say. Ur patience is running out, both physically and emotionally. You dare not face the challenges and push the blame to me as if I deserve it. Haven’t you been loving and kind, patient to everyone, why not include me now?
Thanks but no thanks, I will want to have something like this. I rather you never talk about patching up with me Now, I see that the damages are shattered on me. To think should I have a choice now? no, I did not. u left me to pick up the pieces you left behind.
How fair would this be, only you know. I hope to get out of this nightmare, out of this miseries.
Reality world means cruel world.
*my true feelings? quoted from someone special*
The author shall take no responsibility should anyone feel insulted after reading this, but u got to agree that what u gonna read later has some truth in it…
Here goes:
The problem with GUYS:
If u TREAT him nicely, he says u are IN LOVE with him;
If u Don’t, he says u are PROUD.
If u DRESS Nicely, he says u are trying to LURE him;
If u Don’t, he says u are from KAMPUNG.
If u ARGUE with him, he says u are STUBBORN;
If u keep QUIET, he says u have no BRAINS.
If u are SMARTER than him, he’ll lose FACE;
If he’s Smarter than u, he is GREAT.
If u don’t Love him, he tries to POSSESS u;
If u Love him, he will try to LEAVE u. (very true huh?)
If u don’t make love with him, he says u don’t Love him;
If u do, he says u are CHEAP.
If u tell him your PROBLEM, he says u are TROBLESOME;
If u don’t, he says that u don’t TRUST him.
If u SCOLD him, u are like a NANNY to him;
If he SCOLDS u, it is because he CARES for u.
If u BREAK your PROMISE, u Cannot be TRUSTED;
If he BREAKS his, he is FORCED to do so.
If u HURT him, u are CRUEL;
If he HURTS u, u are too SENSITIVE!
That’s why i say: 男人是女人的致命点。。。
This entry is for my sweet & pretty gal fren…
Have more confidence in urself…u are Great!! =)
Five Signs He’s Into You….
It doesn’t take rocket science to figure out if a guy is interested in you or not. Yet, a lot of women waste their time guessing and second guessing a guy’s "real" intentions. Here are five no-brainers that show he’s into you.
He pays attention to you
As obvious as it might seem, there are still women out there who don’t understand the basic concept of what it means for someone to be "interested" in them. But if you slow down and think about it, it’s pretty clear: a man who is "interested" has an interest in you. He’s curious about what makes you tick. He finds you exciting. So if he really pays attention to you — calls you, sends you emails, asks you to hang out - it’s the first sign he’s into you.
He compliments you
Men are not known for being the most observant creatures. So if he mentions how cute your freshly-manicured toes are, it’s a good sign. If he’s bold enough to tell you how much he loves the little freckles on the bridge of your nose, it’s an even better sign. Sometimes it’s easier for a man to say, "I like your laugh" than to come right out and say "I like you." But if he compliments any part of you, there’s a good chance he likes all of you.
He touches you
In elementary school, it’s the boy pulling your pig tails. In high school, it’s the guy starting a tickle fight. And as a grown-up, it’s the man at the bar who brushes his arm against yours as he flirts. When a guy goes out of his way to make physical contact with you, it’s a pretty good sign he’s into you.
He makes time for you
Men tend to organize their lives in compartments — work, family, friends — and there’s usually little overlap between them. If he starts giving you time usually devoted to the other aspects of his life, it’s a good sign that he’s into you. If he starts sharing those other aspects of his life with you, it’s more than a sign — the man is yours for the taking.
He tells you
This one may seem the most obvious, but at the end of the day, it’s the most important sign: if a guy can take a risk and tell you he’s into you, there’s a pretty good chance he really does.
Of course, if he’s only saying the words, and not showing you with actions, you’re probably right to question his intentions. A guy who’s really, truly into you will express his feelings through words and actions.
by Lisa Weseman
Published: 03/15/2007
*quoted from a website
They fought, they bled & they RIP on the same day…
Both Father hammie & his son left me on tis day…
i feel guilty for not taking good care of them…
thanks weizhong for helping me to clear up everything…
thanks mingquan for accompanying me thou u are tired…
1st post of the year, new start of life…
Resolution for 2007: BE HAPPY!
DEPRESSION
What is it?
We all have the odd bad mood day but depression is much more serious than just feeling a bit grumpy. It’s an illness caused by a chemical or hormonal imbalance that’s either prompted by a high-stress situation or is part of your genetic programming. It can dominate and seriously disrupt the life of sufferers - they become both physically and emotionally fragile. Classic symptoms of depression include:
• Extreme sadness and crying.
• Feelings of hopelessness.
• Loss of appetite.
• Lack of energy.
• Lack of motivation.
• Lack of concentration.
• Insomnia.
Are you depressed?
Obviously only a qualified expert can spot depression. But if you think you may be suffering from depression, think back over the last couple of weeks and size yourself up against the following checklist of symptoms.
Do you feel sad all the time?
Do you feel uninterested in things that used to excite you?
Have you noticed changes in your appetite?
Do you sleep a lot? Or find it hard to sleep?
Do you feel anxious and hyper? Or really drained of energy?
Do you feel bad about yourself?
Do you feel confused or have difficulty making decisions?
Do you think about death or suicide?
Do you have lots of aches and pains?
Do you skive school or get much lower marks than you used to?
Have you run away? Or do you daydream about it?
Do you cry or get angry really easily?
Do you abuse alcohol or drugs?
Are you over-sensitive to rejection and failure?
*quoted from a website*
p/s: If one has most of the above syptoms but his/her partner strongly thinks that its an excuse to get away from everything…
wat would u do??
04 Nov 2006 - one exam paper down…
think i did badly for the paper, got high chances of failing…haiz…
well, wat’s done can’t be undone…*shrugs*
i’m left with one last assignment & my LAST final paper…
December 2006 - i’m ‘unofficially’ free!! (results not out yet…)
Juz realise a fren of mine did quoted some entries from my blog to hers…
din know the contents did mean something to her…
i tot i was blabbing rubbish on this ’site’ where nobody bother to read…
Anyway, thumbs up for Ver’s blog!! (if u are reading tis) Nice One, i like it…
got one more blog to keep me ‘entertained’ other than the current links that i’ve been reading ‘faithfully’…
*sadz sadz sadz…crossing my fingers till results are out…
*Insomia usually comes with Stress or Unhappiness…
hey guys, if u are reading this entry, tell me how true it is okie??… =p
To my gal frens:
Just Be Urself, He Loves u For Who u are. If he doesn’t, DUMP HIM!!
hahahaha… =p
Here goes:
According to men, they want a counterpart they respect, a cohort who shares their interests and a confidant they can talk to. They want women to be happy with who they are and comfortable getting what they want. So listen up, ladies. Men just may be a little simpler (and more complex) than you thought.
Men want a girl who:
Knows what she wants
Confidence is still the name of the game. Many men listed trying to hard to please others (including them) as a turn-off. Instead, women who know what they want (and aren’t afraid to ask for it) were described as attractive, sexy and desirable.
Makes me laugh
A sense of humor is as important to men as it is to women. After all, a relationship without its fair share of laughter gets old pretty quickly, if it gets started at all. Lighthearted, witty or utterly ridiculous doesn’t seem to matter, as long as you get each other’s jokes and aren’t afraid to throw dignity to the wind and get silly sometimes.
Takes care of herself
Yes, looks made the list. But no one cited "beauty" or "great legs" among his criteria. Instead, it seems that looking "put together" is essential. Men admitted that they want a woman to "put time into her appearance" and be generally neat and organized while avoiding the "high maintenance" category.
Shares my interests
If you can’t agree on what to do together, it gets complicated to be together. It is important to guys that their girls have common interests (or be open to them). Whether they’re into rock climbing or old movies, they’d much rather have you along. And even if it’s not your thing, simply being curious and open-minded about their work and hobbies can be enough to satisfy their need to be understood.
Surprises me
It’s actually not much of a surprise; spontaneity ranked high as a very desirable trait in a woman, though the quality earned varying definitions. For some it was the inclination to make spur-of-the-moment decisions or having a generally "adventuresome" personality. For others it was enough that a woman thought differently than they did and had the ability to surprise them with her outlook, her suggestions or her actions.
Impresses me
Many women get the message that men are threatened or turned off by intelligent, powerful women, but according to the source, that’s pure fiction. Guys want someone they can respect. They cited intelligence as a highly desirable quality; quite a few admitted that they preferred a woman who is more intelligent than they are. Strong really is beautiful, so put your best self forward.
Doesn’t care what I think
It’s not always what they say to our faces, but guys claim to respect a woman who does her own thing, even when it isn’t aligned with what he wants. Independence is strong and attractive, and it’s a plus when he knows you’re autonomous enough to be on your own and have a good time without him.
Tells it straight
Guys don’t want to have to play games or guess what a woman wants, so they’re drawn to honesty, sincerity and the ability to communicate clearly. If you’re straightforward about how you feel and what you want, he can react to you rather than waste time trying to gauge what’s really going on. Men aren’t exactly pros when it comes to reading our minds, and they know it. Being upfront about how you feel can make it a little easier on everyone.
Cares about me
They didn’t seem as concerned with being the sun to her earth as they were interested in women who are genuinely compassionate. While a girl who is the center of her own universe might be intriguing in the beginning, it gets old fast, and men want to be treated with kindness and respect as much as women do. They also notice how we act when it’s not about them: back-stabbing and cattiness score high as major turn-offs.
Confuses me
Don’t ever feel that you’re beholden to one version of yourself or that he’ll lose interest if you reveal your "dark" side. Men are strangely drawn to contradictions, and the polarities of your personality are what make you uniquely you. Let yourself be bookish and passionate, conservative but spontaneous, lighthearted and intellectual — those warring contradictions that can make you crazy can also make you mysterious and continually surprising.
*by A.K. Boyle
Published: 19 Oct 2006
Stick with You – The Pussycat Dolls
I don’t want to go another day
So I’m telling you exactly what is on my mind
Seems like everybody is breaking up
Throwing their love away
I know I got a good thing right here
That’s why I say (Hey)
Nobody’s gonna to love me better
I’m must stick with you Forever
Nobody’s going to take me higher
I’m must stick with you
You know how to appreciate me
I’m must stick with you, My baby
Nobody ever made me feel this way
I’m must stick with you
I don’t want to go another day
So I’m telling you exactly what is on my mind
See the way we ride
In our private lives
Ain’t nobody getting in between
I want you to know that you’re the only one for me
And I say
Nobody’s gonna to love me better
I’m must stick with you
Forever
Nobody’s going to take me higher
I’m must stick with you
You know how to appreciate me
I’m must stick with you, My baby
Nobody ever made me feel this way
I’m must stick with you
And now
Ain’t nothing else I can need
And now
I’m singing ’cause you’re so, so into me
I got you
We’ll be making love endlessly
I’m with you (Baby, I’m with you)
Baby, you’re with me
So don’t you worry about
People hanging around
They ain’t bringing us down
I know you and you know me
And that’s all that counts
So don’t you worry about
People hanging around
They ain’t bringing us down
I know you and you know me
And that’s why I say
Nobody’s gonna to love me better
I’m must stick with you
Forever
Nobody’s going to take me higher
I’m must stick with you
You know how to appreciate me
I’m must stick with you, My baby
Nobody ever made me feel this way
I’m must stick with you
Nobody’s gonna to love me better
I’m must stick with you Forever
Nobody’s going to take me higher
I’m must with you
You know how to appreciate me
I’m must stick with you, My baby
Nobody ever made me feel this way
I’m must stick with you
*sharing with my favourite song with you….
